Dating MILF & Cougar Women – Part 2

As we talked about yesterday, dating a MILF woman can be a rewarding experience. The women know what they want, very few games, and typically make amazing sex partners.

When thinking about dating a MILF or cougar woman, really have a conversation about the situation.  What type of conversation should that be? We will delve into that in this article.


MILF & Cougars Know What They Want – Make Sure Wants Match Up

In many relationships, when both people don’t know what they want, it can lead to breakup. This type of dating is no different. If you both aren’t in for the same reasons, there is going to be miscommunication. Of course, the miscommunication will lead to problems & eventually a breakup.

If you are both involved just for dating & fun, make sure you both know that. Cougars know they can get any guy they want because they have the confidence. The level of confidence that most MILF & cougar women have is normally much higher than a guys because they know they can attract any guy. Men, even though there is sometimes a hardcore bravado, don’t have the situation that easy.

Again, the dating doesn’t change much. The situation might be different, but communication is actually going to be far more important here. There are some cougars who are looking for a true younger love, which might be great if you are one of those guys who is really ready for love. There are some who just want to date & have sex when they want.

Both are okay, but again, just make sure both are on the same page.

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Don’t Forget Chivalry On a Date

Guys, remember that if you are dating someone, it is still dating. The rules of dating still apply. There is still a courtesy to open doors, pull out chairs, and at least offer to pay for a dinner or a date.

Many MILF cougar women normally have their own money and don’t have a problem paying sometimes. That’s fine, but it is still good practice before you go into a dating situation to have your money together, or if you can’t pay for something, maybe suggest a date that may not be as expensive to the wallet.

One of the great parts of dating older women is that they truly value love, time together, and having comfort. If you are up for making a homemade dinner, having a movie night & having a great conversation, that could be a tremendous date already.

But if you are going out, just remember to be a gentleman, always. No matter what. (Quick edit – don’t be a dick and bring up age all the time. It could be uncomfortable and if you are thinking about it, it could make her think about it and it might be awkward).

MILF Cougar

Many hot mature MILF or cougar women have the same sexual drive that young men have, so don’t be afraid to be open about what you might want to try. You just might get more than you bargained for.

Start Off As Fun, But Could Be More

Let’s say you start off meeting on a site like a Tinder or another type of quick dating site. Maybe both of you are thinking that you will meet up for sex. The sex may become regular. You become close but you know its going to be just fun.

In some cases, there is a spark that can’t be denied. People want love no matter what. Even if someone has been scorned over, there is still the desire for love & tenderness. MILF & cougar women get this very well. Many are nurturers  – teachers. They will be open to showing off fun skills & tricks, as long as the guy is worth it.

If a  guy is a douche, he is going to be a douche. He wouldn’t be worth the time anyway for dating anyone. If the guy is a good dude, and wants to try something different, or has been hurt too many times by younger women, the fun could lead to something more, quite possibly a full relationship.

Many times (not all), if a guy has a job, no drama, and possibly his own place, he won’t have a problem taking on a relationship. In personal experiences, the situation has been that the women didn’t care if there was a job (always have had one), kids (none, whew) or other superficial things happening. Love & togetherness conquered all. Courtship was important. Truly showing they were beautiful & appreciated was important.

Just remember to keep your mind open to all possibilities.

Dating MILF Women Fun & Learning Experience – Part 1

Those who are of a certain age remember the “American Pie” movies of the late 90s & early 2000s. The films talked about high school for many Gen Xers during that time, and brought the idea of the hot cougar to mainstream. In the movie, two young guys had a hot chance to date a sexy MILF during the film.

Young men around the world basically lost their damn minds.

For those who don’t know by now, MILF stands for “mom id like to fuck.” These are women who are typically older (possibly 20-30 years) but have a wild sexual drive. The women have taken care of their bodies & are more chill than younger women.


Many times, MILF women who are looking to date younger guys have the strong sexual desire along with the need to nuture. Outside of juat the external, older women tend to be some of the best relationships when it comes to being with younger men.

But, as with any dating situation, there are pros & cons. Even when dating a hot, sexy MILF woman who wants to have some fun only.

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Having Sex With MILF Women Is A Blast – Literally

Most times, many MILFs are women who have their shit together. They have strong careers, have gone through the whole child thing, and are looking to take care of themselves. If there was an unfortunate divorce or other situation where a relationship didn’t work out, they want to just have fun & enjoy life a bit.

This is where the younger men come in. Young guys tend to have more energy & more stamina than the older ones who would be in the woman’s natural age range. The women want to have some more of the fun that maybe wasn’t available while raising their kids.

Or, their husband/boyfriend before just couldn’t handle them sexually. The talk is that women hit their sexual prime in their 40s while many men are a bit over the hill at that time (though Viagra, of course, has changed the game).

For the young guys, they get to finally unleash their full sexual pleasures. Many times, the experienced woman will be willing to take the lead. She knows what she wants & knows exactly how to be pleased. Most times, the guessing game is not in play. You will be lead to the sexual pleasure & climax that anyone wants to have during sex.

Remember To Not Be a Dick About It

After dating older women myself for a long time, the biggest pet peeve that many have is that guys will openly say the term “older” or make it a big deal. It isn’t a big deal. Its 2017, age is only a number now.

There are situations were a 21 year old guy will find a 45 year old woman incredibly attractive. And mesh with that person. Vice versa from the woman. It is about the connection & the energy – hence why the women are attracted in the first place.

If there is a situation where as the guy (or woman in many cases) you aren’t comfortable, the situation is not going to work. No matter what happens, it is still dating & a possible relationship. The basics don’t change at all. It is still about having fun.

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If There Is A Future, You May Meet Kids Your Age

Many guys find this to be a bit odd sometimes, particularly those who aren’t always comfortable with taking the fun out of the bedroom. Just as in any relationship, if someone comes in with kids, they will be a part of the life.

The main difference is that with most older women, the kids are on their own. Kids aren’t in the house, and there isn’t the odd situation with custody fights or anything like that. But they will be a part of the equation.

When the kids are adults, they have been around the block a bit. They have dated just as much as you, and know what to look for. During the older phases, the moms will listen to their children much more, and their opinion is just as strong as if you were dating someone and you wanted to get to know their parents.

As you would do with anyone, remember to be respectful & kind, and make an impression. If this woman is someone you want to spend tons of time with, there have to be situations where you have to be on your absolute best game as a gentleman or woman.