Those who are of a certain age remember the “American Pie” movies of the late 90s & early 2000s. The films talked about high school for many Gen Xers during that time, and brought the idea of the hot cougar to mainstream. In the movie, two young guys had a hot chance to date a sexy MILF during the film.
Young men around the world basically lost their damn minds.
For those who don’t know by now, MILF stands for “mom id like to fuck.” These are women who are typically older (possibly 20-30 years) but have a wild sexual drive. The women have taken care of their bodies & are more chill than younger women.
But, as with any dating situation, there are pros & cons. Even when dating a hot, sexy MILF woman who wants to have some fun only.
Today’s piece looks at MILF dating and what to look for on either side of the fence. For porn purposes, see hot MILF action over at our free porn section now.
Having Sex With MILF Women Is A Blast – Literally
Most times, many MILFs are women who have their shit together. They have strong careers, have gone through the whole child thing, and are looking to take care of themselves. If there was an unfortunate divorce or other situation where a relationship didn’t work out, they want to just have fun & enjoy life a bit.
This is where the younger men come in. Young guys tend to have more energy & more stamina than the older ones who would be in the woman’s natural age range. The women want to have some more of the fun that maybe wasn’t available while raising their kids.
Or, their husband/boyfriend before just couldn’t handle them sexually. The talk is that women hit their sexual prime in their 40s while many men are a bit over the hill at that time (though Viagra, of course, has changed the game).
For the young guys, they get to finally unleash their full sexual pleasures. Many times, the experienced woman will be willing to take the lead. She knows what she wants & knows exactly how to be pleased. Most times, the guessing game is not in play. You will be lead to the sexual pleasure & climax that anyone wants to have during sex.
Remember To Not Be a Dick About It
After dating older women myself for a long time, the biggest pet peeve that many have is that guys will openly say the term “older” or make it a big deal. It isn’t a big deal. Its 2017, age is only a number now.
There are situations were a 21 year old guy will find a 45 year old woman incredibly attractive. And mesh with that person. Vice versa from the woman. It is about the connection & the energy – hence why the women are attracted in the first place.
If there is a situation where as the guy (or woman in many cases) you aren’t comfortable, the situation is not going to work. No matter what happens, it is still dating & a possible relationship. The basics don’t change at all. It is still about having fun.
If There Is A Future, You May Meet Kids Your Age
Many guys find this to be a bit odd sometimes, particularly those who aren’t always comfortable with taking the fun out of the bedroom. Just as in any relationship, if someone comes in with kids, they will be a part of the life.
The main difference is that with most older women, the kids are on their own. Kids aren’t in the house, and there isn’t the odd situation with custody fights or anything like that. But they will be a part of the equation.
When the kids are adults, they have been around the block a bit. They have dated just as much as you, and know what to look for. During the older phases, the moms will listen to their children much more, and their opinion is just as strong as if you were dating someone and you wanted to get to know their parents.
As you would do with anyone, remember to be respectful & kind, and make an impression. If this woman is someone you want to spend tons of time with, there have to be situations where you have to be on your absolute best game as a gentleman or woman.